I know nothing about happiness or suffering, why listen to nonsense...

Late afternoon, leaving work, she stopped by the supermarket to buy a fresh snakehead fish, a bunch of okra, a tomato, a piece of pineapple, some bean sprouts... This afternoon, she treated her husband and children to sour soup. After walking a distance from the supermarket, she remembered that she forgot to buy chili, so she turned the car around. What would sour soup be without a bowl of spicy fish sauce and chili?

She doesn't like to cook food that can be stored in the refrigerator for a long time. She wants the meat to be really fresh, the fish to still be wriggling, she personally selects each coriander stalk, each tiny kumquat... Her colleagues often say: "Why is it so hard!". A man clicks his tongue: "Vietnamese women spend too much time in the kitchen. They don't know how to love themselves. They always take care of their husbands and children."

After listening, she scratched her head: "I don't feel miserable. I'm happy!".

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Happy women often think about what delicious dishes to cook for their husband and children, then they are always busy in the kitchen. Just by looking at how a woman treats her husband and children to eat, you can guess how she feels about her marriage. Unhappy women often have cold kitchens.

A friend of hers said: "Modern women do not touch their husband's money. They earn their own money, buy whatever they want, eat whatever they want, and do not need to depend on anyone. Only then can they be happy and free." After hearing this, she thought about herself. She has a job and an income, can buy what she likes, but is still very happy when on the 5th of every month her husband transfers his salary into her account.

That money is used to buy milk for the children, pay the rent, and calculate family expenses. The extra is put in the piggy bank. Sometimes her husband asks, "Do you need money to spend after I give you that?" with a caring and affectionate attitude.

She feels her husband's responsibility, care and trust in her. She has money but is very happy every time her husband buys her something she likes.

Trust your heart, don't listen to nonsense (Illustration)

One day, during lunch break, a female colleague told me that she had just learned how to read palms. She held my hand, looked at it back and forth, then leaned over and said: "Your hand is very thin and not soft, when I read your palm, it feels empty. Hey, I'm asking you honestly, does your husband not love you? It shows on your hand."

She smiled and did not reply, considering it a joke. Her colleague held another woman's hand and said: "This hand has suffered a lot in the way of husband and children. It seems like you are rarely happy. Remember to watch your husband, lest there be a mistress." Her colleague slapped her thigh: "No wonder!". I heard that that night, the couple had an argument. The colleague was angry with her husband and posted on Facebook blaming men for not being faithful.

She thinks that sometimes women, because they hear random words like comments about their palm lines, conclude that they are miserable, that their husbands do not love them. The words are like the wind blowing past their ears, the listener becomes absorbed in them and becomes sad and cries, thinking that they are on the wrong path compared to the world. The trajectory of happiness is not the same for everyone. Like a person who likes to travel and concludes that a person who only wants to go home all year round does not know how to live!

Am I happy, only I know the exact answer./.

nld.com.vn (According to phunuonline.com.vn)

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