Pay 100 million VND/month to keep girlfriend faithful after several affairs

In the British show To Catch a Cheater, a guy named Jonathan wants to test his girlfriend's loyalty after being cheated on several times in the past. He says he will pay his girlfriend £4,000 a month (more than 100 million VND), in exchange for absolute loyalty from his lover.

Jonathan told host Luis Mercado that he was at least a 9/10 in looks. Despite his looks, he was still cheated on. Wanting to know if his current girlfriend was really worth the money, he asked a person posing as a personal trainer to approach his girlfriend Alina while she was having coffee.

To pay for his girlfriend to be faithful, the man asked someone to pretend to be a personal trainer to approach her to test whether she was cheating or not.

Jonathan and Luis watch all the action through a secret camera connected to a laptop.

Alina was sitting outside the store with a glass of water, while the impersonator confidently approached her and introduced himself.

"Hey, sorry. I'm Justin," the impersonator said.

Jonathan's girlfriend shook the other guy's hand and said, " Alina, nice to meet you."

Seeing that the signal seemed positive, Justin continued: "Do you work around here? I've never seen you before." He continued: "I like this corner and noticed you were wearing that striking blue shirt." Then Justin leaned over and touched her shoulder.

Alina was a little surprised and said: "That's easy!"

Undaunted, Justin smiled and said, "My bad temper flared up again, but you look great."

After a few small talks, Justin suddenly sat down on the chair opposite Alina.

“Do you mind if I sit here?” Justin said.

Alina raised her hands and said, "Yes. I want you to stand up. I'm waiting for my boyfriend."

Justin still had no intention of giving up and continued, "I didn't mean to be rude."

It seems that Justin's flirting failed, Jonathan is happy to see his girlfriend being faithful in her current relationship. He triumphantly tells Luis that money can buy love, but viewers of the show on YouTube disagree.

"If a man pays for his girlfriend's loyalty, most people know she doesn't really like him," one commenter said.

Another wrote: "This is not love, it is possession."

People who have had an affair are likely to repeat it many times.

Swiya Dharmadhikari, a 28-year-old advertising professional, had a difficult time with her ex-boyfriend, who dumped her. "After we broke up last year, he came back and apologized. But when we got back together, he cheated again. Then I found out he was still seeing other women at the same time."

This is nothing new. A study by the American Psychological Association found that people who have cheated on their partner are 3.5 times more likely to do so again. Relationship experts around the world back up this finding : “Once a cheater, always a cheater.”

Having an affair not only affects your partner but also directly or indirectly affects you. Illustration photo

What makes your partner cheat?

Clinical psychologist Varkha Chulani believes that once you forgive your partner for cheating, instead of figuring out what caused the problem, it becomes a habit. "Cheating is a habit that develops over time. The reason it becomes a habit is because they've been let off the hook once, they think they'll get away with it next time too."

This is a mental disorder.

According to psychologists, cheating can be considered a brain disorder. Expert Sauleha Shaikh said, "Like obsession, cheating is also a form of psychological disorder when a person feels satisfied by hurting another person emotionally."

Speaking about her experience, Prajukta Sharma, a 31-year-old housewife, said, "When I got married a year ago, I had no idea what to expect. My husband, a bank employee, admitted that he had had an affair in the past, but he promised that he would not do it again after marriage. However, after a few months, suspicions started to arise. He was on the phone late at night and whenever I asked him about it, he would say that he was talking to a client. I found out the truth when I found out that he was having an affair with someone he was in constant contact with on the phone late at night. That person was his ex-girlfriend and he was cheating on her by promising to get married this year."

How to reduce the possibility of adultery

- Evaluate your actions: consider your actions and ask yourself if you are on the right track.

- Find out the reasons for cheating: Analyzing the reasons that led to your cheating can help you cope with these situations better. If you are simply looking for pleasure outside, you will be in serious trouble.

- Think about your own performance: Not only will you lose the trust, love, and loyalty of your partner, but constantly deceiving your partner can make your partner wary of you.

- Always feel insecure: Having an affair not only affects your partner but also directly or indirectly affects you. It will make you lose your mind and regret.

- Loneliness: When your significant other can't stand your womanizing because of constant cheating, they will never give you another chance.

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