The young men who came to see her ran away because they were shocked by the standards of the nearly 40-year-old 'aunt'.

163.com (China) published a story about a woman named Tran, 38 years old. Tran is pretty, has a perfect figure and dresses stylishly, but she doesn't have a boyfriend so she keeps going on blind dates.

However, after more than a dozen dates, the guys kept coming and going because Ms. Tran's standards for a partner were too high. Accordingly, she wanted the other person to have a house, a car, and an annual salary of about 300,000 NDT (more than 1 billion VND). If they did not meet those criteria, "there was no chance".

Choosing a man who is perfect in every way at Ms. Tran's age is almost impossible.

Ms. Tran is old but has high requirements for blind dates.

Ms. Tran was born in a rural district, her parents were both farmers. Her family was poor, so she studied hard to change her fate. After graduating from a key university, she worked for a foreign company with a salary of more than 10,000 yuan (more than 35 million VND).

Her career is going well, but this woman's love life is quite winding. She has been in love many times but has failed, not because the men are bad, but because her requirements for the other person are too high.

She said that she would never share the hardships, and that whenever she chose a lover, she would force him to have a house and a car, and that his financial situation was "not a concern". Sticking to those standards, after many years, Ms. Tran remained single while her friends got married and had children.

At this point, she felt worried. Her parents urged her a lot, so this woman decided to spend 70 thousand yuan (more than 240 million) to register her information on a dating website, in order to find a "high-quality" marriage partner.

The staff tried their best to arrange blind dates, the groom's conditions were all very good, but they all turned their backs when they found out that Ms. Tran was 38 years old and had many demands.

The dating consulting agency honestly advised her that age is a disadvantage and if Ms. Tran lowers her standards for choosing a partner, she will find the right person.

Ms. Tran still did not listen, thinking that her conditions were excellent in every way. She also did not understand why men criticized her like that because the above conditions were quite basic.

5 mistakes of 'leftover girls' when looking for a husband

Usually, every woman sets standards for the perfect man. However, because you expect too much from that, it is easier to make mistakes. Illustration photo

Dreaming of an unreal model

This is one of the leading reasons why single girls stay single for too long. The more ambitious you are, the more you dream about the ideal prince. Because of that, you are picky in choosing a boyfriend because you don’t see any man who meets the standards you set. And that is the reason why you are stuck in the process of finding the perfect prince.

So the first lesson to learn is that nothing is perfect, you are certainly not completely perfect so you should not set too high standards for your partner.

Revealing great desire for a partner

Have you ever wondered what men think of you? Do you think about the impression you make on them?

If you always show that you are lonely and are longing to find an ideal lover and a perfect partner, then one thing is for sure, in the eyes of men, you will leave a bad impression. Men will think that you are longing for them too much and are not interested in such girls.

Too impatient to meet the right person

Luckily, after setting such high standards for your partner, you finally met your "dream prince". You were extremely happy and wanted to move forward with him right away. However, at that time, you made a huge mistake. Because you found your dream person, you were extremely excited and showed that you were too eager to pursue him.

Remember, men like to conquer, not be conquered. Therefore, if you confess your feelings too soon, you will quickly fail.

Not realizing self worth

Because you have been single for too long and are under a lot of pressure, you think you are a spinster, your value has dropped dramatically, and you don’t have many options. You don’t properly evaluate your own strength and abilities.

That will make you feel self-conscious and subservient in front of men. Especially when you meet a great man and like him, you are willing to lower yourself and underestimate yourself to show your admiration for him. That is a wrong action, you can only make a good impression in the eyes of men when you show confidence and understand your own worth.

Excessive anxiety about being single

You tell him or everyone about your parents' and relatives' concerns that you will be single. You are restless when you see your friends getting married and having children, while you are still single.

You are always worried about your condition and do not hesitate to express it to him. That is your mistake, guys will run away immediately when meeting a girl like that. Simply because no one wants to be the one to defuse the "time bomb". They want to be the one to conquer a girl who has more admirers.

Many Chinese women decide not to get married.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/hang-chuc-chang-trai-den-xem-mat-deu-bo-chay-vi-het-hon-voi-nhung-tieu-chuan-cua-ba-co-gan-40-tuoi-172240312163855711.htm