My mother has a stylish fashion sense and a lifestyle that is even more modern than that of young people. My father, on the other hand, is a quiet man who works tirelessly to support the family. His love for my mother is immense, always patient and indulgent to all her demands.
When Mom came home with new shoes and an expensive coat, Dad just smiled and complimented her on how beautiful she was, even though I knew that behind Mom's back, Dad's eyes were filled with worry. Mom had no idea that the money she used to buy those things was Dad's hard work, working overtime all the time.
One time, my father was seriously ill, but my mother still calmly went out with friends without paying any attention. I angrily asked my mother: "How can you be so heartless? My father needs you to take care of him and cook for him." My mother replied: "It's okay to be sick like that, it will get better in 1-2 days, and I bought porridge and left it on the table for him."
I once saw my father sitting alone eating dinner, while my mother was busy playing with her friends. My father's dinner consisted of only a bowl of cold rice and a fried egg with fish sauce. When I asked him, he said: "Let your mother go out, she is an extrovert, she cannot stand a boring, quiet life."
I wonder how dad can put up with mom like that? (Illustration)
2 days ago my dad asked me to borrow money - since I was 18, I have earned my own money and do not need support from my family, now I have graduated from university and am working at a company near home.
My dad borrowed 10 million from me to pay off his credit card. I was shocked to learn that my mom had maxed out his credit card last month. My dad was struggling to pay off his debt, he must have been desperate to ask his daughter for a loan. For the past 10 years, I have not asked my grandparents for money, so my dad always felt guilty for not being able to take care of me. Now my dad asked me to borrow money, but he was hesitant and said, "If you have it, lend it to me, I will pay you back next month, if you don't have it, that's fine, I will ask for an advance on my salary."
I felt so sorry for my father and was also angry with my mother. My mother did not understand my father's situation. Even if she knew about my father borrowing money, she would ignore it and pretend she did not see it.
I wonder how my father can tolerate my mother like that? Maybe he can tolerate that so the family life is peaceful. For more than 20 years, I have never seen my parents quarrel. But marriage is not always a beautiful marriage without quarrels, there must be sympathy, sharing and understanding! I just hope that one day my mother will understand and love, care and worry for my father!
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