32 years old, has 2 children but my wife still posts revealing photos on social media, when her husband reminds her, she just says "yes" but it's still the same

My wife never controls me because I hate it, but she often does whatever she wants and ignores what her husband says.

I am not a man who likes to control his wife. I myself do not like to be controlled or scrutinized by anyone, so in return I respect my wife like that. I never give her any opinion on where she wants to go or what she wants to do, as long as both sides know when to stop and do not go too far.

In the first few years of our marriage, my wife often criticized me for hanging out with my friends, occasionally checking my phone and not allowing me to hang out with this person, not allowing me to socialize with that person. However, after many arguments, cold wars, and even the brink of divorce, she found a way to harmonize our married life.

My wife is beautiful, makes money, and is good at taking care of her husband and children. The only thing she can't do is get along with her husband's family. But that doesn't matter to me. I'm getting married, not my parents or siblings. Why should I force my wife to please them?

I have worked for so many years and I have given all my money to my wife. I have never thought about money. To be honest, sometimes I have talked to this girl or that girl, but I have never gone too far and I am not crazy enough to take my wife and children's money to give to other women.

For many years now, my wife has never asked me where I'm going or what I'm doing. Sometimes I tell her my work schedule in advance and she forgets. Sometimes at 10pm I'm so excited that I drive around town and she doesn't stop me. She never worries about whether I'm going out with any girls or not.

Everyone thinks I'm happy, my wife is beautiful and never makes a fuss with her husband. It's true that my wife never raises her voice or causes trouble with me, whatever I say she agrees with. Of course, I'm a person who does what I say, I don't complain when she goes out with friends, if necessary I stay home to take care of the children so she can go out.

However, not everything is as perfect as we wish. My wife - a woman with nothing to criticize - has only one thing that gives me a headache, which is that she dresses very boldly.

My wife used to take photos as a model for some fashion stores. In recent years, she has been taking advantage of her free time to sell clothes, so she designs clothes for customers herself. However, the clothes she sells are very revealing, mostly pajamas, swimsuits...

I tried to remind her that she should limit her revealing clothes now that she has a child, but every word seemed invisible to her silent determination.

Whenever I remind her, she just smiles and never argues back but never listens. The very next day, she posts even more revealing photos. If I react, she will flatter me with a few words and I don't know when my madness will stop. After that, the photos posted on social media by my wife are still as revealing as before.

Every time I see my wife’s bold photos on social media, I feel insecure. I can’t help but think about the looks other men give my wife, about the flirtatious comments they leave. I don’t want to be a narrow-minded husband, but my feelings and comfort are being disturbed.

My wife is a tactful woman, never arguing or causing trouble with her husband. She always smiles and agrees to my requests, but I know that if those requests touch on something she doesn't like, her agreement will be just empty words. And so, despite conversations and reminders, she still maintains the same way of expressing herself.

I wondered, did she feel like she lost her beauty and charm after giving birth and needed to assert herself through her dressing style? Or was she not ready to give up her image as a sexy woman, even though she was already a mother of two children? I couldn’t read her mind, I could only feel the discomfort inside me.

I cannot deny that she is still a wonderful wife and a good mother to our two children. She maintains a youthfulness and vitality that many other women can aspire to. But it seems that between us, an invisible wall of differences in opinion is gradually being built.

I also understand that in this age of social media, the attention and attention she receives can give her a certain sense of confidence. But I would like some consideration from her, some respect for my feelings and the image of our family in the eyes of society.

I don't know how to balance between respecting my wife's individuality and wanting to preserve the family image. Maybe I need to find a way to express my love and care more strongly, so that she understands and thinks about changing not only for me, but also for herself and our children.

I hope there will be a solution, a way out of this dilemma. I do not want to lose my beloved wife, nor do I want to be a controlling, restrictive husband. All I want is more consensus and mutual understanding, to build a happy family together, not only outside but also in the hearts of each member.

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