In the middle of the wedding, the mother-in-law asked a question that the daughter-in-law remembered for 4 years.

“After four years of being a daughter-in-law, I am truly happy to have fallen into my mother-in-law’s trap. She is hard of hearing, not modern, and only stays at home to cook, but I find her to be so great,” shared by Ms. Nguyen Thu Hang (born in 1996, from Thai Binh ), touching many people.

Below the shared line are many "bullet points" about her mother-in-law listed by the daughter-in-law. Each bullet point is a good thing she received from that 'great woman'.

Ms. Hang and her mother-in-law have a good relationship.

Thu Hang returned to Ninh Binh to be a daughter-in-law in 2020. Before that, when she came back to meet her family, she felt that her mother-in-law - Mrs. Nguyen Thi Nhung (born in 1960) was a gentle, rustic and sincere woman.

Since then, every time she returned to her hometown, Hang was warmly welcomed by Mrs. Nhung and taken care of in every detail. She always remembers her mother-in-law's urging to get married: "This April is beautiful, let's get married."

After getting married, Thu Hang and her husband lived and worked in Hanoi. Her husband's parents were farmers and were not well off. Her mother-in-law had been hard of hearing for more than 10 years and her limbs were getting weaker. "However, the love that grandparents have for their children and grandchildren is boundless."

After four years of being a daughter-in-law, Thu Hang has many beautiful memories of her mother-in-law, of which the memory that she remembers most is on the wedding day.

Amidst the mixed emotions of a bride who married far away, her mother-in-law’s question: “Are you tired?” made her feel like a cool stream flowing in her heart. She has remembered those words for the past 4 years.

Both times she returned to her hometown to give birth, Ms. Hang was cooked delicious meals by her mother-in-law. She was touched when her mother-in-law took the initiative to learn how to cook nutritious meals for her daughter-in-law.

“At that time, every afternoon my mother brought snacks to my room to eat, and sometimes helped me hold my grandchild so I could do my personal work. When she saw that her daughter-in-law wanted to rest, my mother always understood and took the initiative to go out,” Hang said.

In the city, she and her husband take care of their children themselves. Every time she returns to her hometown, the thing she hears most from her in-laws is: “Keep trying, son, it will be easier in a few years. Your parents can’t help you much, they can only encourage you like that.”

Then, the grandparents would prepare a whole “supermarket” for the couple to take to the city. Local gifts such as oranges, lemons, onions, garlic, bunches of vegetables, eggs, meat, grouper... she filled the trunk of the car.

“Neighbors don’t know and think my mother-in-law runs a small supermarket. In fact, my grandparents save all the best food for their children and grandchildren,” she shared.

After four years of being a daughter-in-law, Ms. Hang felt that her mother-in-law was a simple, affectionate person who did not criticize her daughter-in-law or hold grudges over small matters. She had two daughters-in-law and always treated them fairly so that all her children felt loved and respected.

Confinement tray and items mother-in-law sent from the countryside for her children and grandchildren

Hang admits that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are sensitive relationships and every daughter-in-law is very confused in getting used to the new lifestyle in her husband's family. That is when they need sympathy, understanding, love and tolerance from their parents.

Ms. Hang feels lucky to have kind and loving parents-in-law. But she always reminds herself that every good relationship needs to be nurtured by both sides. She herself must also be honest, polite, and behave properly with her parents-in-law.

“In addition, the role of the husband is also very important. My husband loves and cares for me, and guides me on how to get along with everyone.

When I first became a daughter-in-law, I was awkward and confused, but thanks to him, I gradually opened up more. Thanks to him being the bridge, my mother-in-law and I can love and get along with each other like we do now," the 9X shared.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/giua-dam-cuoi-me-chong-hoi-mot-cau-khien-con-dau-ghi-nho-suot-4-nam-172241017091533382.htm