Divorced because of poverty, 3 years later the girl regretted it to the point of crying when passing by her ex-husband's house because she saw this

Recently, Sohu reported that a woman in Fujian province, China attracted millions of views when she posted a video recording her emotions when passing by her ex-husband's house after 3 years of divorce. This girl even burst into tears, saying in tears because she was so regretful and remorseful when seeing her ex-lover having a better life.

Before that, the couple still decided to be together even though the guy's family was not well off. Illustration photo.

Accordingly, at first, this girl put aside objections from her family, relatives and friends to marry a poor man because of love.

However, after living together for a short time, married life, with disagreements in views and economic shortages made her feel suffocated. Finally, the woman proposed a divorce.

She thought her life would improve after leaving her poor husband, but no, she continued to struggle to make a living. At this time, the girl had to work many extra jobs, working hard every day to pay for her room, food and many other services,... Because she had been married before, she also had difficulty finding a new husband, especially men who met her criteria - financially well-off.

This young girl continued to live like that for about 3 years. One day, she was invited by a friend to a party, and on the way she happened to pass by her ex-husband's house. However, the sight of the house in front of her made her surprised, even stunned for a long time. Accordingly, instead of a dilapidated level 4 house, now before her eyes was the largest 5-storey house in the village.

The girl recorded a video standing in front of her ex-husband's house.

Not stopping there, after returning home and inquiring, she also learned that her ex-husband had bought another house in the city, remarried and had 2 children. The family was also very happy.

“Seeing my husband so happy, compared to my uncertain life, I had to suppress my feelings of dissatisfaction. I went home and locked myself in my room and cried a lot. If I had known it would turn out like this, I probably wouldn’t have gotten a divorce,” she cried and shared. She constantly blamed herself and regretted her decision back then. She believed that it cost her her life, she had to live alone and work to support herself.

After the girl shared her feelings on social media, there were many controversial and conflicting comments. Many people criticized the girl, saying that this showed selfishness and jealousy. One netizen frankly said: “This is not regret, this is jealousy, envy and hatred. If others do well, you will be jealous, and if they do not do well, you will laugh at them.

We often see some people feel jealous when others succeed and gloat when others fail. This mentality actually reflects the individual's lack of confidence and doubt about his or her own worth.

The girl cried a lot because she regretted breaking up with her husband.

Furthermore, many people also pointed out that it was clear that the girl mentioned above and her ex-husband had different views on life, so divorce was appropriate. "It was lucky for the guy to get rid of this girl", "If he had been with such a girl, he probably wouldn't have had today", "In marriage, consistency in values and attitudes towards life on both sides is extremely important. If two people have different views, even if they fall in love again, after a long time living together, conflicts will still arise",... are comments from netizens.

Many people also pointed out that the girl had a problem with her outlook on life, had a dependent lifestyle, relied on others and did not love herself. This was shown in the girl constantly blaming her circumstances, never trying to strive and fight for what she wanted and needed.

Netizens commented: “The woman seems to put her happiness in her marriage and other people. She divorced because she was not satisfied with her current situation and hoped to find something better. When she saw that her ex-husband was richer, she regretted it. This wavering attitude accurately reflects a lack of self-awareness and clarity about life goals”, “You should make your own decisions about your own life. We should focus on improving ourselves and realizing our own value, instead of paying too much attention to the lives of others”,...

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/ly-hon-vi-ngheo-3-nam-sau-co-gai-hoi-han-den-bat-khoc-khi-di-ngang-qua-nha-chong-cu-vi-thay-dieu-nay-172240930093952515.htm