My husband and I have been married for 6 years and have two daughters. My husband is handsome, humorous, and a good talker, so many girls have been crazy about him since the beginning. While loving him, I have often felt tired and jealous. That jealousy has only lessened somewhat after we got married.
I always tell my husband to be less gallant and less affectionate with women. Just be considerate to your wife and that's enough. But he doesn't change, always acting like a good man to women all over the world .
I gave birth to two daughters by caesarean section because it was not favorable, the doctor advised not to have any more children. My husband also supported, saying that nowadays having children is precious, gender is not important. I am truly grateful to my husband, but sometimes I can’t help but worry.
Many people still tell me to be careful with my husband lest he go out and have a son. I know they are just joking, but it still makes me worried. Men, even though they say it doesn't matter whether they have a son or a daughter, probably want to have both.

That is the reason why I increasingly scrutinize, pay attention to and control my husband. He comes home late, I need a reason. His phone password must be made public for me to know. My husband is upset but does not object. He always says that he is as bright as the sun, there is nothing to hide or fear.
One time, I followed my husband to a party with his company, sitting next to a female colleague of his. She praised my husband endlessly, winning the hearts of all the women. I asked her if he was having an affair with any girl at the company. She looked at me and smiled, meaning that if it was true, it would be hard to find out.
She and I exchanged phone numbers and became friends on Zalo. She said she would "keep an eye" on my husband for me, she would be my "eyes and ears" whenever I was at the company, so I shouldn't worry too much. Her voice was gentle and friendly, like we had known each other for a long time.
Sometimes, she texted me, saying that my husband often teased this person or that person at work, and instead of sleeping at noon, sat talking privately with the new workers.
She advised me to control my husband, because men are inherently flirtatious, and a little carelessness will "ruin things". She told me not to let my husband know she said it, otherwise colleagues would have trouble looking at each other.
One day, my husband kept reporting to work overtime and coming home late. I texted his coworker and asked if he was working overtime today. She replied, "The company has little work these days, we don't work overtime." After reading the text messages, my suspicions grew even stronger.
She advised me to calm down but insisted: There are no faithful men, only men who cheat and men who cheat without being discovered. Her husband loved her very much in the past, but in the end he betrayed her. As a result, they have been divorced for several years.
Every piece of information she gave me made me lose sleep because of discomfort. I often twisted and mocked my husband, but he frowned and said I was paranoid. We constantly argued over unclear matters. It is true that I have no evidence of his adultery, but what my colleague said could not be fabricated.
One day he came home late from work, I sniffed him all over for any strange scent. Looking at his tired and exhausted appearance, I thought he had just done something bad. Seeing my behavior, he suddenly got angry.
He said he couldn't stand me anymore, coming home late and tired, and his wife made up excuses to cause trouble. If I don't believe him, go to the office tomorrow and check his timesheet to see if he really worked overtime or if he lied to his "fat cat" outside.
He took the initiative to sleep separately, which made me feel even more uneasy. No matter what happens, husband and wife cannot sleep separately, unless he has "eaten his fill" before coming home.
I had no idea how I had turned myself into an ugly wife in front of my husband until he told me that he was so tired every time he came home, he couldn't stand my terrible nonsense anymore.
I confided in my husband's colleague, and she added fuel to the fire: "That's not good. He's starting to find excuses. As a woman, even if we get divorced, we should be proactive. We absolutely won't let a man "kick" us out of his life."
We haven't talked about divorce yet, but I've asked for a temporary separation. My husband didn't object, and he even gave the excuse that the company had a big and urgent order so he often came home late, so he wouldn't bother me for a while.
A few days ago, while taking my two daughters to the supermarket, I happened to see my husband. He was not alone, but with another woman. She was holding his arm, looking very affectionate.
Before my anger could flare up, my limbs went weak when I saw the woman’s face clearly. It was her, no one else, it was his colleague whom I always trusted.
In a moment, I understood everything. It was she who tried to push me away from my husband. And I was stupid enough to push my husband towards that woman.
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