'Toxic' fathers often have 6 typical habits

A good father will help his child go far in life, but there are also fathers who have habits that are not beneficial to the child's development.

1. The grumpy father

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In life, many fathers encounter trouble at work, and when they come home and see their children disobeying them, they easily "go crazy".

A father's bad temper not only affects the child's mental health and personality development, but also easily destroys the harmony and warmth of the family, hurting the feelings of husband and wife, parents and children. A hot-tempered father will also destroy the child's sense of security and self-confidence, and will "infect" the child with bad temper.

Losing your temper will not solve the problem, no matter how big the problem is, you must learn to control your emotions. Treating family members well and being gentle with others is always the secret to maintaining happiness and success for a mature man.

2. The father is "addicted" to mobile phones

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A 7-year-old boy once confessed live on television in Beijing: "Dad loves his cell phone more than me." Because the boy observed that every time he invited his dad to play with him, his dad would prioritize his phone first and then fulfill his promise to him.

In fact, there are fathers who are more addicted to their cell phones than their children. Social media has made adults absorbed in news and entertaining videos , even forgetting about real life. A child who receives indifference from his father may feel neglected, isolated, and unloved because he always sees his father staring at his phone screen.

When dad is focused on his phone, he will also find another "screen" for his child to play happily on, without affecting his "surfing" on social networks. This is an extremely bad habit. If this habit continues, the child will not participate in any other outdoor activities, unintentionally causing the child to become lethargic and slow when interacting with the world around them.

Using a phone is not bad, but letting children abuse it all the time is a bad wayto educate them. Instead, parents should join their children in activities such as reading, playing Lego, parent-child games, running and climbing...

3. The father likes to smoke

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The harmful effects of cigarette smoke on the health of people around, especially children, are indisputable. If the father smokes regularly, the child is susceptible to bronchitis and pneumonia.

In addition, it also harms children's learning ability, reading, reasoning and math. Fathers who smoke should find ways to cut down or smoke in places that do not affect others.

4. The father often drinks alcohol

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Besides smoking, fathers should also avoid getting drunk in front of their children because it will leave bad impressions on them from an early age.

At the same time, letting children often witness their fathers drinking alcohol will affect their psychology as well as their growth process. This is also one of the reasons why children become stubborn and do not listen to their parents' teachings.

5. Patriarchal father, controlling everything of his child

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These are fathers who put too much pressure on their children, both in their studies and in other areas of life. These fathers are never satisfied with what their children achieve, they always compare their children with other outstanding children and put pressure on their children to achieve higher results.

"Pressure makes diamonds", but if not done properly, it will lead to unpredictable consequences. Children are at risk of becoming bored, tired, and not wanting to do anything. Besides, encourage your children to develop their own abilities instead of imposing tasks beyond their capabilities.

6. The father broke his promise

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Before the age of 10, a father is the sky in his child's eyes. However, many fathers always use time and busy work as excuses for breaking their promises to their children. They use excuses because they think their children are still young so they make up excuses for the sake of it.

A dishonest father will lose the child's trust and make them feel insecure. More than any relationship, you need to keep your word to your child, don't make arbitrary promises.

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