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When she was young, she dropped out of school to make room for her older brother. When she got married, she still gave her mother 3 million a month, but that didn't change the family's sincerity.

Báo Gia đình và Xã hộiBáo Gia đình và Xã hội12/09/2024


My name is Trieu Mai, I am 40 years old. When I was young, my father passed away early, so all the burden fell on my mother's shoulders. I felt sorry for my mother's hardship, so I always listened to her and never dared to talk back.

When I was young, I loved studying very much. Besides the times when I had to help my mother with housework, I could always pick up a book to study. Thanks to that, I was always in the top students of the school and won many high achievements in competitions.

However, when I was in 10th grade, my mother cried and told me: She had no way to let both me and my brother go to school because the higher the education, the higher the tuition fee, while her health was limited, she could not earn much money. Therefore, she wanted me to drop out of school to create an opportunity for my brother to go to university.

So I listened to my mother, dropped out of school and started working to earn money for the family.

Ngày bé phải nghỉ học để nhường cho anh trai, đến khi lấy chồng vẫn chu cấp 3 triệu mỗi tháng cho mẹ, nhưng tôi không thể đổi lại sự thật lòng của gia đình- Ảnh 1.

I sacrificed everything including my youth to earn money to support my family.

To let my mother rest more, I worked hard to do 2-3 jobs at the same time. Sometimes I washed dishes for hire, sometimes I delivered goods, drove a motorbike taxi,... When I had some capital, I started to practice selling online, so luckily my income was more stable than before.

Of course, most of the money I earn goes to my brother's schooling and living expenses at home. I only save a small portion of it for myself, I want to have some savings for the future.

When I was 26, a guy with good conditions pursued me. We developed feelings for each other and after half a year of dating, I wanted to get married.

But my mother did not agree, nor did she say outright that she would not let me get married. She just complained to me that the family was still in difficulty, and if I got married too soon, what would happen to my mother and brother?

I was very sad but because I loved my mother so much, I reluctantly said goodbye to my boyfriend. Sometimes now thinking back, I still feel regretful about my decision.

It wasn't until my brother got married that my mother allowed me to find a partner.

My current husband and I got married when I was 32. He had been married before and had a daughter. After the divorce, the daughter lived with her mother in another city, and only had to pay monthly child support.

At that time, my mother said that I was too old, had a low level of education, and my online sales job was not prestigious, so she was not picky. She asked someone to introduce me to my current husband.

I also agreed. After a few meetings, I found him to be a good-natured, thoughtful person, and his parents were easy to get along with, so I agreed to get married.

Up to now, my husband and I have been together for 8 years. During these 8 years, he has never disappointed me. For example, every month, I still regularly send 3 million to my mother. If it were any other man, they would probably scold their wife terribly. As for my husband, he supports me completely. He said that daughters are like sons, even after getting married, they still have responsibilities to their biological parents.

But this year, by chance I overheard a conversation between my mother and brother that completely broke me down.

Accordingly, on the day of the Duanwu Festival, my mother-in-law prepared offerings for me to bring home, including 30 sticky rice cakes, sweet dumplings, pork, rice, fruit, candy,...a cart full of supplies.

When my husband and I got home at 11am, I was about to push the door open and go in when I heard my mother talking about money so I stopped to listen. After listening for a while, I understood that they were talking about my brother wanting to buy a house in the city.

Ngày bé nghỉ học để nhường cho anh trai, khi lấy chồng vẫn chu cấp 3 triệu mỗi tháng cho mẹ, nhưng không đổi lại sự thật lòng của gia đình - Ảnh 4.

Mom doesn't love me, in her heart there is only my brother.

Mom said to her brother: "Tieu Bao, you don't need to worry about money. For the past few years, your sister has been giving me money every month, but I haven't used it. I also gave you the savings book from selling the land. When she comes back today, I'll tell her to give you more money. That way, you'll have a decent deposit."

The brother was not embarrassed at all and said frankly: "Mom told him to give me another 200 million, that's enough. But today, my brother-in-law is here, so don't say it yet. Wait until he's alone to tell him. There's another problem, I want to buy a car for the family to travel conveniently, but I'll have to pay monthly installments, so I have a headache."

Mom had another idea: "Tieu Bao, then every month I will ask your brother to give me more money to cover living expenses and then give it to you, you don't need to worry anymore, it won't affect your health."

After hearing that, I really couldn't stand it anymore so I pushed the door open and walked in, leaving my mother and brother gaping in surprise.

I said frankly: "Mom, I've heard everything you two said. It's good that he wants to buy a house, I support him, but I won't contribute a single cent. Moreover, from now on, I won't give you any living expenses anymore. After all, I've given you enough for the past 8 years, and now it's his responsibility."

With that, I put down the gifts and left without waiting for their reply.

On the way home, I burst into tears because of the resentment in my heart. It was clear that my brother and I were both born from my mother, so why did my mother only have my brother in her heart, while I was just like a mobile bank.

I am completely devastated. From now on, I will live as if I have no biological family.



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