At 40, searching for peace!

The age of 40 is considered a special stage in everyone's life, especially for women. This is a time when many people experience changes in their thinking, emotions, and perspectives on life. Women who pass this age often feel they have a better understanding of themselves and life, leading to different viewpoints on love, happiness, and responsibility.

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My friend T marked her 40th birthday with a breakup with the man she had been with for several years. They came together after both had failed relationships. T ended a beautiful relationship of nearly 20 years, during which they were married but had no children. The man left empty-handed, deciding to leave all his assets to his ex-wife and two children. They had been through difficult times together, and now they were parting ways…

You said that before turning 40, everything could be put on hold and taken care of. But after turning 40, you seriously reconsidered things, realizing that everything was no longer frivolous or carefree, but rather a stage of serious reflection, looking straight ahead. At 40, you no longer place too much faith in love or others. You believe in yourself, in the savings you've accumulated, and that knowing when you have enough brings peace of mind. After careful consideration, you realized that instead of entering a complicated relationship, you prioritize spending time on things that make you feel relaxed and happy. And your happiness is being free to do what you like, living for your loved ones, and no longer placing too much emphasis on marriage and children.

At 40, women enter a new chapter in their lives, where rosy dreams gradually give way to reality. They realize that life doesn't always go their way. They accept life's imperfections; no longer overly concerned with chasing unrealistic standards imposed by society. They know where their self-worth lies and focus on building a meaningful life that aligns with those values.

At 40, women experience enough inner reflection to open up opportunities for self-reconstruction; to discover new potentials and live a more meaningful and fulfilling life.

Source: https://baophuyen.vn/hon-nhan-gia-dinh/202504/tuoi-40-tim-kiem-su-binh-yen-f0023bf/