The case of a 10th grade female student committing suicide due to suspected school violence: The mother opens her heart

" The wrong person must know how to admit his mistake …"

Seven days have passed, but Ms. PTTV - mother of female student N. - still cannot believe that her daughter has passed away. She said that in the messages she sent to her mother, N. talked about her fear of going to school.

On her personal page, Ms. V. shared: "I would like to thank everyone for caring for and sympathizing with the child, coming to pay their respects to the child, and sending condolences to the family. I would like to apologize to those close friends of the child who were negatively affected when the problem occurred. For the family, we are extremely saddened by the child's passing, this pain is beyond our endurance."

Vinh University High School for the Gifted - (Photo: NP).

Also according to Ms. V., 7 days after her child passed away, the online community is still "boiling" about her child's problem: "Pity, anger, regret and even slander and fabrication. Up until today, the child's family has difficulty breathing, please everyone, if you cannot speak the truth, do not slander, do not trample on the child's pain anymore. I do not expect anyone to cover up if the family makes mistakes, but do not say lies."

Ms. V. also sent a message to those who have fought and sympathized with her son in the past few days. She hopes that everyone will speak up to clarify the matter. Everyone should follow the law and not do anything that will affect everyone.

According to Ms. V., the family does not ask the relevant units to take any responsibility, nor accept any compensation.

"Our family only hopes that the school in particular and the education sector in general will pay more attention, be more attentive, and treat the children more fairly. We hope that what happened in my family will be a warning, awakening the conscience of some people in the education sector, so that in the future, no one will fall into the same situation of suffering as my child.

I also hope that parents teach their children more about human ethics and how to live with each other. Parents themselves should not cover up their children's mistakes but teach them to recognize their mistakes and correct them. I also hope that students try to learn good things, and if they cannot do good things, then do not do anything that harms others," Ms. V. confided.

Regarding the issue of requesting to transfer classes, the mother of female student N. admitted her mistake to her child and frankly said: "I myself am a mother who just gave birth. So I was subjective and took lightly the things that happened to my child. Although I went to school to meet the principal to request to transfer classes, and called the homeroom teacher to discuss the bullying of my child by some friends.

When my child says: "I don't like going to school. I can study at home." I simply think that studying at home is quieter and more focused," Ms. V. added sadly.

In recent days, the Principal of Dai Vinh High School for the Gifted has come to burn incense, offer condolences and apologize to Ms. V's family. At the same time, the school will also be responsible for clarifying issues related to her child's case.

Urgently clarifying related issues

On the afternoon of April 21, Mr. Nguyen Hong Soa - Head of Student Political Affairs Department, Vinh University said that the school is handling the incident in the most thorough manner according to regulations.

"First, we will discuss and work with N.'s family and relevant parties to reach a final conclusion. We are currently working urgently to do this as quickly, fairly and in accordance with the law," said Mr. Nguyen Hong Soa.

Vinh University leaders work with press representatives.

Previously, answering Dan Tri reporter, Mr. Pham Xuan Chung, Principal of Vinh University High School for the Gifted, said that over the past few days, the school has visited, expressed condolences, and encouraged N's family.

In another development, in recent days, messages have been circulating on social networks that are said to be from a group of parents of class 10A15, Vinh University High School for the Gifted.

The content of the messages shows that, since the beginning of the school year, parents have warned about a group that has been boycotting classmates, led by a female student. In it, the content is said to be the parents' discussion about their child telling them that if any student does not skip class, they will be boycotted...

Vinh University High School for the Gifted has asked the homeroom teacher of class 10A15 to explain and report the incident, as well as the messages spread on social networks.

"This is unverified information. The school is still in the process of verifying the truth," Mr. Chung added.

As Dan Tri reported, on April 15, female student NTYN (class 10A15, Vinh University High School for the Gifted, Vinh University, Nghe An ) was found dead at her home, hanging.

After the death of this female student, many information spread on social networks that she was a victim of school violence. Many Facebook users blamed some female classmates for putting mental pressure on N., causing her to make this heartbreaking choice.

In the past few days, the principal of Vinh University High School for the Gifted, the homeroom teacher of N.'s class, has been repeatedly receiving death threats from strangers. The homes of some female students believed to be involved in N.'s death have also been pelted with dirty substances, and some people have come to film and take pictures...

The police agency recommends that people do not post or share fake news, untrue news, unverified information, incite violence, or cause insecurity and disorder.

Nghe An Provincial Police are continuing to verify and strictly handle cases of taking advantage of cyberspace to post false information and incite school violence.

Source: https://dantri.com.vn/giao-duc-huong-nghiep/vu-nu-sinh-lop-10-tu-tu-nghi-do-bao-luc-hoc-duong-nguoi-me-trai-long-20230421181801478.htm