3 types of people who come to wish the homeowner good luck

If a person always likes to do these three things when visiting someone else's house to celebrate Tet, he or she must have high emotional intelligence and can easily bring luck to the homeowner.

In interpersonal communication, people with high emotional intelligence can always make others feel like a spring breeze. Especially when they are guests, their words and actions often reveal kindness and wisdom.

Pay attention to detail, observe words and emotions

People with high emotional intelligence pay attention to detail and understand the emotions of others. When visiting other people's homes, they observe the preferences and inconveniences of the host and avoid making difficult requests.

If they see that the owner is tired or busy, they proactively offer to help. This kind of subtle observation not only makes the owner feel respected but also avoids unnecessary confusion.

Warmth between people is often shown through these seemingly invisible details.

People who like to observe words and emotions can keenly detect changes in the other person's emotions and react accordingly, which brings them closer together.

Offer help and respect boundaries

People with high emotional intelligence understand that being a guest is not just about receiving hospitality but also about responding appropriately.

Not only do they sit back and enjoy what they get, but they also offer to help and show concern for the host.

For example, the guest proactively cleans up the food after the meal, or helps the host arrange cups, bowls, and candies on the table.

But more importantly, they know how to be cautious and not overstep their boundaries with good intentions.

They will first ask if help is needed, rather than directly interfering in the homeowner's work.

For example, if the homeowner is busy in the kitchen, they will first ask if they need assistance instead of hastily intervening.

This behavior of respecting boundaries not only shows their politeness but also makes people feel comfortable and at ease.

Give sincere compliments and avoid insults

People with high emotional intelligence can always convey the power of warmth in their words.

When visiting someone else’s home, they will pay attention to using sincere compliments to enhance the atmosphere. For example, when seeing a dish that has been carefully prepared by the host, they will praise its deliciousness instead of criticizing or commenting. They understand that each sincere compliment will make the host feel that his or her efforts are recognized.

At the same time, they also pay close attention to their words, and will not arbitrarily comment on the homeowner's home decoration or living habits, let alone make people feel offended.

If they find something different than what they expected, they will remain tolerant and understanding rather than being dissatisfied or surprised.

This type of restraint and sincerity in speech reflects respect for others and allows them to always maintain a polite, dignified image in interpersonal communication.

What should you keep in mind when visiting relatives for Tet?

The general spirit of Tet must bring warmth, joy and sincerity. The way of congratulating relatives must also ensure these factors.

Wishes must always carry the sincerity of the giver. Therefore, a cheerful face and neat preparation are things to do before going to wish relatives a happy new year.

Normally, you may be especially close to some of them, so when you go to wish them a happy new year, behave appropriately. A polite greeting not only helps maintain proper etiquette but is also very important to the elders in the family.

Although you are very interested in your relatives and want to know how their lives are going, there are some questions you should avoid because they will be considered nosy and rude. Questions you should definitely not ask include: When will you get married?, How much is your monthly salary?. If you are interested in their standard of living or living conditions, you should only ask general questions like: Is your work going well?

Because relatives can be friends, but sometimes they are also people who due to work conditions do not see each other all year round. Taking time to share life views, update the situation at home and share common joys is in the true spirit of Tet.

T. Linh

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