I became the third person of the old married writer

Finding out that your loved one has cheated on you is bad enough, but finding out in embarrassing situations can be even more painful. Here’s an ironic story shared by a woman on Reddit:

"I have been in love with a guy older than me for almost 2 years. He doesn't give clear reasons but always avoids talking about marriage.

We are both writers and I helped him edit a novel. After it was published, he sent me a link to buy the book.

It was then that I was shocked when I read the author's introduction: Douchey lives in Springfield, Illinois, USA with his wife and two children."

The female writer accidentally became the third person in a hopeless love affair. Illustration photo

What to do when you suddenly become the third person?

Your love is beautiful, filled with romantic moments. Suddenly one day, you receive a notice that you are the third person in someone else's family. Should you quickly let go or persist in protecting your love?

When someone says you are the third person, instead of getting angry or letting go of the other person because of too much emotion, you need to carefully research the information to see if it is true. Otherwise, you can easily make mistakes, especially when your emotions are unstable.

Maybe this is a joke, or someone's attempt to sabotage your relationship. Take some time to calm down and start looking for facts.

Not everyone is sober enough to come up with the best solution when accidentally becoming the third person. Illustration photo

If you are the third person, it means the problem is with the person you love. They have hidden it from you for some reason. Maybe they are "greedy" in love. Maybe the other relationship is not official, or has ended a long time ago. You coming later does not necessarily mean that person does not truly love you. But if you realize the deception, do not be foolish enough to get involved in this mess. Be brave enough to let go of a love that will not go anywhere.

If you and your partner love each other. The person who came first is just the past and there is no legal binding, you should consider fighting for your love with your partner. When you two are truly in love, you will know how to work together, overcome all the storms to be together for a long time.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/toi-sap-bay-tinh-cua-nha-van-lon-tuoi-da-co-vo-va-2-con-172240408153135468.htm