Why do childless marriages with separate finances so easily fall apart?

Recently, the announcement of Xoài Non and Xemesis's divorce has become the center of attention on social networks. The two used to be a handsome and beautiful couple admired by many people, so this information has surprised and saddened many people.

On the evening of June 16, Xoài Non suddenly announced her divorce from Xemesis. She wrote the announcement in English, roughly translated as follows: "First of all, I want to thank everyone who has loved and supported us. And I regret to announce that our relationship has ended. Thank you for making my youth so beautiful!".

Xoài Non also posted his wedding photo and tagged Xemesis in the post. As for Xemesis, he also shared some lines in English, roughly translated as: "Wishing you all the best, thank you for everything you have done for me over the past 6 years and all the sacrifices you made during our time together. It's a pity that my journey has come to an end, but the time spent with you was the best time of my life. I hope you will always achieve what you want and always keep a smile on your face."

Xoài Non and Xemesis have no children together, so the two divorced peacefully and amicably. In addition, the couple is also financially independent, each spending their own money. Regarding this, Xoài Non has also spoken out. She has repeatedly affirmed that after marriage, the couple will spend their own money, no one will control the other.

Starting out as a famous girl on the internet, her financial potential could not be equal to her husband's family, but Xoai Non always tried to keep herself in a balanced position with her husband in terms of finance. Therefore, she always worked 3-4 jobs at the same time, worked hard to sell products, and became a KOL to increase her income.

Xoài Non posted an announcement about the end of her marriage along with a photo with Xemesis.

Her marriage is quite similar to MC Mai Ngoc's in that they have no children together and each person spends their own money. A few months ago, MC Mai Ngoc suddenly announced her divorce after 17 years of marriage with her businessman husband. She said the couple ended their relationship in 2023, after 17 years together. After the breakup, they had no joint assets, no children together, and nothing in common to divide.

MC Mai Ngoc shared: "...17 years of youth, for Ngoc, beautiful memories are the greatest asset. The bad things will be lessons to teach me how to become more mature.

Ngoc also sent her thanks to Mr. Nam, thanks to the time spent with him, Ngoc became the strong, independent woman she is today. Although sometimes she cannot avoid feeling lonely and sad... but in return, in the present, Ngoc feels happy when looking back at what she has, all thanks to her constant efforts and hard work every day.

At the age of 34, after a long time of struggling, Ngoc thinks it's time for her to deserve a new, happy and peaceful life...".

Why do childless marriages with separate finances easily fall apart?

Children are the glue that binds the couple's feelings, helping them become more responsible in life and limit mistakes. Psychologists on Yourtango advise young couples who are "planning" but feel their married life is boring to boldly think about having children. The presence of a child will bring new winds to the family, helping you and your spouse love each other more.

Having children will help both parents focus on their children, have more time with their children and each other. Each person will also try to live responsibly, be an example for their children to look up to. This is pressure but also great happiness. The potential benefit of this pressure is: the child will inspire parents to live better, more positively than before.

Moreover, although having children is more difficult and there will be moments of frustration and discomfort, children also bring indescribable joy. Many parents confide that the presence of their children helps them become more youthful and their lives become less stressful.

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As for financial matters, in family life, besides the personal expenses of each person, there are many other expenses that require both husband and wife to work together to worry about, especially in purchasing large assets, raising children, etc. Therefore, if when getting married, each couple still spends their own money, it will be inevitable that there will be conflicts when spending on common expenses. That is not to mention the attitude of demanding, boasting, and calculating in this matter.

Therefore, right after getting married, the family's finances should be "collected together" so that both people can take care of and shoulder the burden. Only then can the family's economic situation overcome difficulties and be stable every day.

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Ung Ha Chi

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/cuoc-ly-hon-cua-xoai-non-mc-mai-ngoc-duoi-goc-do-tam-ly-hoc-vi-sao-cuoc-hon-nhan-khong-con-cai-tien-ai-nay-xai-lai-de-toang-172240622060235989.htm