EQ stands for Emotional Quotient, which means each person's emotional intelligence index. People with high EQ have the ability to recognize, evaluate and regulate their own and others' emotions.
Scientists believe that EQ is a more important key than IQ (intelligence quotient) in measuring a person's success. If a person has high emotional intelligence, then their way of dealing with others and building relationships is definitely "top notch". Especially on New Year's Day, people with high EQ will refuse to say the following 5 things:
1. Tell bad family stories outside
In the adult world , no one is "stupid" enough to help you resolve family conflicts, nor will anyone sympathize with you just because of your complaints.
On the contrary, many of your so-called "friends" are secretly treating your troubles as a joke, bringing them up as a topic for "after-dinner tea and wine". After all, "every family has a difficult book of Revelation to read, every person has a difficult song to sing".
Some people secretly consider your troubles funny, bringing them up as a topic for "after-dinner tea and wine". Illustration photo
2. Do not "question" about personal life
At the beginning of the new year, we often gather with friends and relatives and according to habit, we often ask them many different questions, including questions about personal life such as: how was business last year, how much is your monthly salary, where is your lover and why don't you bring them home...
Whether intentional or not, these types of "interrogation" questions sometimes make the other person "stiff"...
People with high EQ know how awkward it is for others to answer questions about their personal lives. So, they will never ask people these types of questions. Because people with high EQ know how to maintain a balanced state when communicating with people.
3. Do not disclose financial situation
Finances have always been a sensitive issue and it is not necessary to disclose it to others. However, in reality, many people let those around them understand this issue. Even people who are not family members or close friends know how much money you have.
When you reveal your financial situation, you can easily fall into a situation that is both funny and sad. If the other party knows that you have a significant asset, when they encounter difficulties, they will definitely want your help. At this time, if you need money, what will happen?
When you have money but do not lend it to your friends, you will definitely be in a difficult situation. Your relationship can also be broken because of money.
In case you don’t have money because you have to worry about many personal and family matters, people around you will easily look down on you. Therefore, finance is a topic that people with high EQ will not mention. If outsiders mention it, they should stay silent and change the topic.
Only by not arbitrarily revealing your financial situation can you control it and avoid hearing rude comments and gossip.
4. Don't compare your child with "other people's children"
"Other people's children" is an eternal problem that everyone encounters at least once in their life. When you compare your child with "other people's children", it will unintentionally limit your inner confidence.
Parents must know that each child has strengths and weaknesses that are different from each other, so we cannot compare who is better than who.
People with high EQ have good communication skills, are sincere and polite. Thanks to that, they connect with many good relationships, have more opportunities to succeed.
Try to talk less, take better care of yourself. Don't easily interfere in other people's lives. Illustration photo
5. Don't preach
Without the consent of the person involved, what you consider to be a kind suggestion is no different from deliberately poking your nose into other people's business. What you think is sincere from the heart can become a weapon to hurt others.
Everything has a cause and effect. Try to talk less and take better care of yourself. Don't easily interfere in other people's lives. Don't always be the one who understands everything but does things that make you confused and suffer losses without any benefits.
6. Don't criticize others
But too much criticism—especially the habit of criticizing others—can lead to subjectivity: it can make us narrow-minded and blind, especially toward ourselves. Bishop Fulton J. Sheen once said: "Criticizing others is a form of self-praise. We think we will straighten the pictures in our house by telling our neighbors that all their pictures are crooked."
Knowing that, people with high EQ never criticize others. Instead, they always maintain a good, happy mood no matter what happens. Thanks to that, they always spread positive energy to others, are loved and helped by many people, and have more opportunities.
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