Unexpectedly, parents' past mistakes haunt their children so much.

It is said that parents are the best role models for their children, because children are influenced by what their parents do from a young age. Therefore, every word and action of parents towards their children is especially important.

When children are young, parents can protect them from the wind and rain, but if parents always quarrel and scold each other, this will seriously affect the child's psychology. Even the psychological trauma can affect the child's whole life, creating an indelible obsession.

The story of Ms. Yang, nearly 70 years old in China, is a typical example. Ms. Yang has a son named Xiao Li, who is over 40 years old this year but is still unmarried. Although he has dated two girlfriends, whenever the topic of marriage is mentioned, Ms. Yang's son gets angry and suggests breaking up.

Nhìn con trai hơn 40 tuổi vẫn sống lủi thủi, tôi rơi nước mắt: Không ngờ sai lầm trong quá khứ của bố mẹ ám ảnh con đến vậy - Ảnh 1. — Mr. Tieu Ly is over 40 years old but still doesn't want to get married.

Although he knew that his actions were irresponsible, Mr. Tieu Ly could not do otherwise. He suffered from a fear of marriage because of his parents' unhappy marriage. He was always afraid that he could not give his wife and children a happy life and would cause other people's daughters to suffer.

It is known that Ms. Duong's husband passed away many years ago. When he was alive, the couple rarely got along. Ms. Duong's husband was violent, hot-tempered, and drank a lot. He often beat his wife. Ms. Duong was always too tolerant of her husband, every time he was beaten, she just accepted it. When her husband got tired of beating her, she quietly went to apply medicine.

Later, when Tieu Ly grew up, he witnessed his father beating his mother. He tried to intervene many times but failed. Throughout his childhood, Tieu Ly's greatest wish was for his parents to love each other like other people's parents. Even if they didn't love each other, they shouldn't argue all the time. Tieu Ly also advised his mother to divorce because his parents' marriage was so terrible. However, Mrs. Duong always accepted it and ignored her son's words.

When his father passed away, life became better and more peaceful for his mother and son, but that did not mean that the trauma and fear of Tieu Ly's childhood had faded. Every time Mrs. Duong urged him to get married, Tieu Ly was grumpy, and once he told his mother the reason.

Hearing what her son confided, Mrs. Ly burst into tears, feeling extremely regretful. She had no idea that her wrong marriage had affected her son so much. "Maybe I am a failure as a mother," Mrs. Duong sadly admitted to herself...

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