After the divorce, the woman burst into tears, not because she was sad, but because her mother said something that hurt her deeply.

Family and Society - A daughter getting married is like a bowl of water being spilled. This bitter saying reflects the fate of women growing up in families still adhering to many outdated beliefs.

This is the bitter story of a woman in Henan , China. After returning to her mother's home with her child, what hurt her most was being kicked out by her mother.

The woman, with one arm around her child and the other pulling a suitcase, made her way a long distance to her doorstep.

This is where she grew up, where her parents and younger brother lived. Yet, just minutes later, the little girl burst into tears, and she herself wept uncontrollably.

When the mother saw her daughter return, she wasn't happy; on the contrary, she became angry. She blocked her daughter at the door, preventing her from entering, and even threw her suitcase away.

"I told her not to get a divorce, but she went ahead and did it anyway. Now she has to bear the consequences of her own actions," the mother said.

When the mother saw her daughter return, she wasn't happy; on the contrary, she seemed angry.

It turns out the woman had divorced despite her family's pleas, and now, having nowhere to go, she had no choice but to return to the place where she grew up.

The mother refused to let her daughter into the house because she was afraid of what the neighbors would say, which would bring shame to the family.

Another, more important reason is that "divorced women bring bad luck into the house, affecting my younger brother's chances of finding a wife."

The words were clear: her mother told her to go wherever she wanted, as long as she didn't come home, and whether she would ever see or meet her again would be decided later.

Having been kicked out of her home by her mother and with nowhere to go, the woman couldn't hold back her tears.

But she didn't dare resist, because the mother and daughter were at a dead end, arguing with her mother would be pointless. She could only persistently beg, hoping her mother would let her stay a few days to figure out what to do next.

The most terrifying thing about a family is not the lack of money, but the poverty of the parents' souls.

Sometimes, parents never provide warmth and strength; instead, they use their cold attitudes and words to inflict deep pain and hurt on their children.

What is most frightening about a family is not the lack of money, nor illness, but the inability of family members to communicate well with each other.

This means a family rife with verbal abuse.

No matter how wealthy someone is, they might just want to run away. Conversely, a harmonious family, however simple, evokes a deep sense of attachment.

What's even more terrifying than poverty is the hurtful words exchanged between family members.

Our family is not a place to argue about right and wrong, nor is it a battlefield to determine victory or defeat. (Illustrative image)

Toxic words only drive loved ones further apart. Physical wounds may heal over time, but the wounds inflicted by words, though not easily seen, pierce the heart.

It's possible to suddenly bring someone down, but you have to understand that what truly brings a marriage to the brink of collapse is often not the family circumstances but the hurtful words that accumulate over the years.

Our family is not a place to argue about right and wrong, nor is it a battlefield to determine victory or defeat.

Love must be expressed in a meaningful way. A parent's words determine their child's destiny. The greatest folly of a family is when its children are not defeated by the world outside.

But it is ruined by the parents' own words. Speaking well and communicating well is the best feng shui for a family.

A family filled with criticism, blame, and constant nagging will surely decline. A harmonious family, however, will prosper even in poverty.

A harmonious family will naturally bring blessings and good fortune. The encouragement, praise, support, respect, and encouragement from a loved one are the driving force that allows us to move forward without fear.

Parental acceptance is the foundation for children to confidently navigate life.

Therefore, knowing how to communicate well and speak effectively is a crucial strategy in marriage, avoiding major arguments.

Avoid arguing over trivial matters, don't bring up old issues, and don't be afraid of winning or losing; this way, the family will become happier, the husband and wife will be affectionate, and the family will be well-off.

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