Suddenly hearing a phone call, I was in so much pain that I just wanted to cancel the engagement immediately.

(Dan Tri) - We will get married at the end of this year. However, recently, his best friend's wife called me and revealed a shocking secret that shocked me.

I have loved Hoang for more than 3 years. We have planned to get married at the end of this year. But the other day, his best friend's wife called me to tell me that on the birthday dinner of one of their group members, the whole group of men invited each other to sing "armrest" karaoke. "That means there are restaurant girls serving you, do you understand?", she said.

She emphasized this sentence, causing the level of hurt in my heart to grow unimaginably. Because this story reminded me of a sad memory from two years ago. That day, I also discovered Hoang getting a massage at a notorious shop in the district, not far from our house.

At that time, we were very much in love with each other, but because of this, we broke up for more than half a year. After that, Hoang had to apologize, swear, and beg me to give him a chance to come back, then I agreed to forgive him. But now he is "a horse familiar with the old path".

Is it necessary for our wedding to take place? (Illustration: Sohu).

I asked the other friend’s wife how she found out about her husband’s affair. She said she had always kept an eye on her husband. She knew he was a womanizer. This was not the first time he had done something wrong and betrayed her.

I sadly shared a few words with her, then hung up. But this conversation kept haunting me. I didn’t want to have to suffer like her after getting married.

Wherever my husband goes, whatever he does, I am not at ease. I always live in jealousy and fear of being betrayed. I do not want to marry a husband I cannot trust.

As for Hoang, he really has many good points. We have been in love for so long, I understand that Hoang is a good person, cheerful, has many friends, and has a stable job and family.

Normally, Hoang always showed love and respect for me. But after what happened, I might have to think again. Does Hoang really love me as I thought? If he loved and respected me enough, he wouldn't have let himself be so easily persuaded and go to such a terrible place.

I refuse to marry such an incompetent man. How can I feel secure in relying on someone who doesn’t know how to say no and is easily led astray? Even though I still love Hoang and really don’t want to break up with a relationship that I have placed so much hope in, I really don’t dare to put my trust in Hoang anymore.

Going for a massage with a girl, singing karaoke on the armrest, these are just two of the countless times he indulged himself. I wonder how many other times Hoang "tricked" me without me even knowing?

On the one hand, I want to build a future with him. On the other hand, I think I can't and shouldn't continue to forgive him.

Hoang's nature is such that he is likely to reoffend in the future. At that time, when we were already married, with children and many other obligations, perhaps the breakup would be much more painful and difficult than it is now.

I don’t want to be like that wife, I don’t want to spend my whole life following my husband and being jealous and angry. Maybe breaking up is what I should definitely do now, right?

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