Here are things women with high EQ don't share with outsiders.
Badmouthing parents-in-law
Conflict between parents-in-law and daughter-in-law is always a headache, long-standing problem. In case of disagreement, be frank in expressing your opinion instead of confiding in outsiders because the story will become a topic of discussion for others and will not help. In some cases, the information may reach the parents-in-law and make everything messy.
An intelligent, emotionally sensitive woman will know how to grasp her own needs and desires and balance them with others. They also put themselves in the position of their parents-in-law to think and find the most harmonious solution instead of blaming.
Confiding in outsiders because the matter of your in-laws will become a topic of discussion for others and will not help. Illustration photo
Show off wealth
The characteristics of a truly "rich" person are that they live in seclusion, do not work too hard, and do not show off to satisfy their vanity. Everyone has heard this, but not everyone can do it.
In life, everyone has their own goals to pursue. Some people spend their whole life working hard but the results are not much. On the contrary, some people can become rich in just a few years.
Many people feel proud and want to share it with everyone around them. However, showing off your family's wealth is not always a wise choice because it is a personal matter and when you share, others do not receive any benefits.
On top of that, outsiders may also feel that you are deliberately showing off your family's wealth. Instead of being happy or respectful, they may feel jealous and annoyed by it.
Therefore, women with high EQ are always modest and never show off their wealth anywhere.
Complaining about family
Family matters should not be told to outsiders. Many people spend all day complaining about family matters, complaining about their husbands being bad, their children, their old parents not being taken care of… The more they talk about these things, the more chaotic the situation becomes without finding a solution.
Words are hard to take back, but you can get some comfort from others whether intentionally or unintentionally.
In fact, every family has its own difficulties, every family has its own happiness. Each person has a different measure, different perspective.
If you look at things from a dark perspective, everything is bad. If you look at things from a bright perspective, everything is good.
Family is a shelter for each person, not a source of pain. Therefore, you should not make family matters a social gossip. The more you complain, the more negative problems will arise.
You should not make family matters a social gossip. Illustration photo
Talking about unhappiness in marriage
Your marriage may not be as good as it seems, but never tell anyone about your struggles. In many cases, honest sharing becomes a joke and invites criticism.
In every difficult situation, a smart woman always stays calm to think things through and find solutions.
Remember, complaining doesn't solve problems. It just turns you into a tired, mean woman who whines about her own unhappiness in her marriage.
8 valuable traits only found in people with high EQSource: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/nguoi-vo-co-eq-cao-se-khong-bao-gio-chia-se-voi-nguoi-ngoai-nhung-dieu-nay-172240920164819625.htm
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