Unexpected discoveries after moving in together
- After the wedding, how does Nong Thuy Hang feel about love and commitment in the relationship between husband and wife?
After the wedding, I realized that love is not just a feeling anymore but also a choice and a commitment every day. Now, we are not just lovers but family, friends, companions and also lovers.
There is a clear sense that the two of you want to build a long-term future together. Not only holding hands during the good times but also willing to go through the little things and difficulties of everyday life together.
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Nong Thuy Hang's wedding:
- What is the thing about your husband that surprised you the most that you never realized before?
When we moved in together, I discovered that Hieu was much cuter than I thought! He always looked serious and cold, but in fact he was a simple, easy-going person with a special sense of humor.
Before getting married, I thought he was a bit of a patriarchal person, like he had to ask permission several times to go anywhere or do anything. But living together, I realized that he doesn't talk much, doesn't show off too much, but always silently worries and cares about my feelings. The way he cares is gentle, not noisy but enough to make me feel loved and respected.
- How does the age difference affect the way you two understand and share with each other over time?
In fact, the age difference has become an advantage in our relationship. Mr. Hieu is mature and experienced, so he always knows how to take care of his family, especially listening and supporting his wife in the smallest things.
I bring him a new source of energy - youthful, optimistic and a little more "adventurous" (laughs). The good thing is that we complement each other instead of tiring each other out. Whenever something happens, instead of arguing, we choose to step back a bit to see things through the other's eyes and naturally understand and love each other more.
The comedian in the house and his adorable yet 'difficult' habit
- What is your daily life like? How do you and your husband divide the housework and are there any funny stories related to this?
We live a very simple and modest life. There is no clear division of roles, whoever can do what can do. But Hieu always takes the initiative to do the heavy work like carrying things, fixing electricity, arranging furniture, never letting me do anything.
Life together also has many small joys. People often tease my husband and I as the “comedians” of the house - because every day I think of something to joke about and tease my husband. So almost every day at home there is a new funny story, sometimes so funny that only the two of us can understand it!
That said, I think it's the little things like that that make married life easier and more enjoyable every day.
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- Is there any habit of your husband that you find both adorable and "hard to handle" when living together?
Hieu has a very “acting” habit. Every time my friends come over, he always acts serious and patriarchal – like: “A wife can’t do this, a wife can’t do that” … But in reality, at home, he listens to everything I say! (laughs) Sometimes I feel both sorry and amused because he likes to maintain a “powerful” image in front of everyone, but everyone close to him knows that he is a kind and thoughtful person.
- Can you tell us about a "lifetime" argument you had with your husband since you started dating and how you two made up?
My husband and I don’t argue much because we get along well, but there have been a few times when we “shouted” so much that we thought we were going our separate ways. The special thing is that those times were all for one reason: Hieu is a very principled person, always wanting to be clear about where to go, what to do, and having to talk and ask for each other’s opinions. As for me, I’m used to a comfortable life, doing everything naturally, not often “reporting”.
Another reason is the different working styles: he is usually quick and simple; I am more "chill", doing everything in detail and slowly. But then we realized that if we both try to hold on to our "I", we will lose our "we". After each anger, we sit down and talk, not to win - but to understand and change ourselves to suit the other person.
- What common interests do you both enjoy and often do together?
We like to stay at home with our family when we have free time instead of gathering in many places. In addition, we both participate in volunteer activities together - that's what I appreciate about him.
- Does your husband have any special talent in taking care of the family that you appreciate?
He is thoughtful and attentive. When he goes shopping, he remembers exactly what I like, and when he cooks, he rarely has to Google because he has it all “in his head”. What I appreciate most is the way he cares quietly - not ostentatious, not noisy, but always doing it silently. That feeling is gentle but deep and trustworthy.
- How do you keep your married life private when your husband is not active in showbiz?
I always try to keep a clear boundary between my personal life and my work. On social media, I share enough to make people happy but not too much to make my married life a subject of scrutiny. Hieu also respects my work and we agree to keep a “peaceful zone” for ourselves - a place where only the two of us can be ourselves, without having to act or prove anything to anyone.
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