'Uncle' from Binh Phuoc went to buy a car and unexpectedly found a bride of his choice

By actively trying to set up his son with a female car sales consultant, Mr. Vien found a daughter-in-law he liked.

A whirlwind romance

In 2021, Cao Nhung (currently 26 years old, from Binh Phuoc province ) worked as a sales consultant for a car dealership in Binh Phuoc. One day while on duty, Nhung met a customer, Mr. Do Ngoc Vien (60 years old, also from Binh Phuoc province). Mr. Vien came to Nhung for advice on buying a car.

This photo commemorates the first time Nhung met her father-in-law at a car showroom.

Seeing the young woman's energetic and resourceful nature, Mr. Vien inquired about her hometown, age, marital status, and then arranged a marriage between her and his son.

"My dad was so enthusiastic back then, he gave me his phone number, Facebook, and Zalo, and told me to save them and add him as a friend right away. I happily went along with it, never expecting this relationship would actually come true," Nhung recounted.

After their first meeting, Mr. Vien actively messaged Nhung, asking about the matchmaking situation. She was so flustered that she proactively messaged Do Minh Phuc – Mr. Vien's son.

Minh Phúc (currently 26 years old) is a soldier stationed in Binh Phuoc. After only a few brief conversations, they developed feelings for each other. After chatting online for just 10 days, Nhung was driven to Minh Phúc's unit by her future in-laws.

At their first meeting, Nhung was a little disappointed because the other person was both dark-skinned and thin. However, emotionally, she found him complete and well-rounded. They felt an immediate sense of familiarity, as if they had known each other for a long time.

The couple got married after dating for just over a month.

That same day, Minh Phuc took the initiative to confess his feelings and received Nhung's affirmative nod.

With the support of both families, the couple's relationship progressed smoothly. In early 2022, they officially got married after dating for a month and a half.

The husband's words in the delivery room moved his wife to tears.

Nearly three years into her marriage, Nhung has experienced a wide range of emotions. She has patiently listened to and understood her husband, persistently expressing her desires to encourage him to change.

"My husband is excellent at his profession, but he's not very good at other things like communication, housework, and cooking. However, he learned all of those things for me."

Nhung and Phuc's happy home

"I tried everything from gentle persuasion and encouragement to praise to help him do a better job as a husband and father. But that change didn't happen overnight; it was a long process," Nhung said.

Throughout her pregnancy, Nhung was always accompanied by her husband to prenatal checkups. On the day of delivery, her husband provided emotional support and attentive care.

“After giving birth, I was in so much pain that I couldn’t even take care of my personal hygiene. My mother offered to wash me, but my husband took over, saying, ‘No, let me do it, wife and child.’ That was the most comforting thing he said to me during childbirth,” Nhung recounted.

Over the years, Nhung and her husband have spent more time apart than together. Phuc has to work shifts at his unit, coming home twice a month, staying for two days each time.

Whenever he comes home, he proactively takes care of everything, such as cleaning the house, looking after the children, and helping them with their studies. Nhung admits that there were times when she felt very lonely living far away from her husband, but she has now balanced her life and emotions.

The mother-in-law happily welcomes her daughter-in-law into the home.

Nhung's parents-in-law are a strong support system, enabling her to achieve this. They help with housework and childcare, allowing her to focus on her work. In their daily lives, both sides treat each other with respect and genuine care.

"My father-in-law is probably the one who has changed the most. My mother-in-law has also commented that over the years, he's become calmer and listens to his children more," Nhung shared.

Nhung also boldly changed many habits in her husband's family. Previously, her husband's family often didn't pay attention to special holidays throughout the year, and didn't exchange greetings or special gifts.

Upon becoming a daughter-in-law, Nhung proactively organized birthday celebrations for every family member and gave gifts to her parents-in-law on special holidays to create a warm and cozy atmosphere.

"Initially, my dad found it strange and cumbersome, but this past October 20th, for the first time in 30 years of marriage, he went to buy a gift for my mom."

"Even my husband does the same; now, on every holiday, he calls home to wish his parents well, and the other family members follow suit... That makes me very happy," Nhung shared.

Nhung believes that when living together under one roof, it's not just her who has to learn how to be a wife and daughter-in-law, but her husband also has to learn how to be a husband, and her in-laws also have to learn how to be parents...

"If each side takes one step forward, the two sides will get one step closer," Nhung said.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/ong-chu-binh-phuoc-di-mua-o-to-bat-ngo-tim-duoc-nang-dau-nhu-y-172241213083139101.htm