After some negotiation, the bride agreed to pay the two bridesmaids on one condition.
The topic “Bride refuses to pay 600 yuan to bridesmaid” is currently on the top of the hot search in China, attracting millions of hits and heated discussions. Most netizens expressed their indignation and anger at the bride’s attitude.
The bride initially refused to pay for the bridesmaid, sparking a social media row. Illustrative photo.
Specifically, a wedding in Ningbo, Zhejiang, China hired two girls to be part-time bridesmaids. Initially, the bride negotiated to pay 800 yuan (more than 2.8 million VND). Both sides agreed verbally. The bride paid a deposit of 200 yuan (more than 700 thousand VND) in advance.
However, after the wedding party ended, the bride did not pay the remaining amount - 600 yuan (more than 2 million VND) to the two hired bridesmaids on the grounds that they did not bring their mobile phones.
However, three days after the wedding, the two girls hired as bridesmaids still had not received any money. When Ye contacted the bride, she informed him that she had not paid the remaining amount, citing various reasons.
Firstly, the bride believes that the hired bridesmaids are only considered employees and are not qualified to participate in the wedding game. And also because of participating in this game, the two girls received a doll worth 300 yuan (nearly 1 million VND) and red envelopes.
For the bride, accepting gifts without her consent is wrong, because neither of them are her friends but are only hired to do work.
Second, these two bridesmaids have already had three meals, each table at the wedding costs 8,000 yuan (more than 24 million VND).
For these two reasons, the bride believed that she did not need to pay the remaining 600 yuan as promised.
The bride even criticized Ms. Ye and her friend for “having no professional ethics.” “I also felt that Ms. Ye’s service attitude was not good, and both of them seemed to do nothing. If I paid 800 yuan, it would be a huge loss,” the bride shared.
Two bridesmaids were upset because they did not receive the money as promised by the bride. Illustrative photo.
Responding to this issue, Ms. Ye said that playing games, eating and receiving lucky money were normal things, making the wedding atmosphere even more joyful.
“Moreover, brides will have different requests. It was clear from the beginning that the bride did not mention anything about accepting or returning gifts. If she had been clear, this would not have happened.”
Regarding the doll, Ms. Ye said it was a gift from the best man to the bridesmaid.
After this incident was shared on social media, many netizens voiced their indignation and debate. Many netizens said that the bride's actions were not in accordance with the original agreement.
Moreover, it is clear that the bride is the one who hired the two girls to be bridesmaids, so it is understandable that they participate in games at the party or eat. Some opinions say that both sides should have clear rules from the beginning, because of the ambiguity, it is now difficult to judge who is right and who is wrong.
“Why hire bridesmaids to sit still? Which bridesmaids at a wedding don’t eat or participate in any games to liven up the wedding atmosphere?”, “This bride is also bad, the amount of money is not worth much. She hired someone to be a bridesmaid for the whole day. I don’t think it’s too much for them to eat or participate in games”, “Some people also think that because they hire bridesmaids, there must be a spirit of contract, her participating in games is also part of the job. If you really have difficulty with this, you should clearly explain the scope of work, work hours, etc. in the first question”. .. are comments from the online community.
After the incident was shared on social media, and the two sides negotiated with each other, the bride agreed to pay 600 yuan, on the condition that both bridesmaids return the doll and the gifts they received at her wedding.
The two girls said they received two red envelopes worth 10 yuan (more than 35,000 VND) and two teddy bears. They will return them to the bride immediately.
Bridesmaid rental services are booming in China. Illustration photo.
As for Ye (26 years old), she said that in addition to her regular job, she has also been working as a part-time bridesmaid for about a year now. On average, she receives 600-800 yuan for being a bridesmaid.
This is a popular service in the country of a billion people. Because nowadays many people do not have many friends to be bridesmaids - young unmarried women, of marriageable age, who have a close relationship with the bride. Moreover, the hired bridesmaids are also very professional and the bride has the right to choose. The other side will agree on the price, make specific requests about appearance, etc. During the wedding, in addition to the main tasks, the bridesmaids also care for and chat with the bride and guests (if necessary).
However, this job also has risks. According to QQ ., whether you are a newlywed couple or a groomsman or bridesmaid, you should pay attention to avoid being cheated, have a clear contract to protect the rights and legitimate interests of both parties. At the same time, when hired as a bridesmaid or groomsman, girls and boys should also consider the customs and practices of the wedding venue to avoid unwanted stories from happening.
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