The heartbreaking truth behind the woman who cheated five times.

GĐXH - After the deception happened five times, he could no longer tolerate it and decided to file for divorce.

Mr. and Mrs. Wang, from Guangzhou (China), met during their middle school years. They started dating at the age of 15 and got married after finishing their studies, according to 163.com.

He thought the following period would be incredibly sweet, but the reality was quite different. Not long after the marriage, the relationship seriously fractured. The main problem stemmed from his wife, Mr. Wang.

Wedding photos of Mr. and Mrs. Vuong.

His wife had many lovers, one after another. Each time she was caught cheating, she sincerely apologized. Wang, feeling sorry for her, forgave her, but the affair continued.

This was the fifth time she had cheated on him. He couldn't take it anymore and decided to file for divorce.

Faced with her husband's reaction, the wife had many things she wanted to express. She didn't want a divorce.

She shared what happened in her marriage so that everyone could have a clearer picture: " Since I got married, my husband has always beaten me. Even when I was pregnant, it was still the same. My husband's family is difficult, and my mother-in-law always makes things hard for me. My days living there were miserable."

Mr. Vuong also lacked thoughtfulness in managing the household or behaving appropriately, which only made his wife more frustrated.

Later, Mr. Wang was involved in a serious car accident, leaving him with severe aftereffects. Although his body recovered, he was still unable to find work. Therefore, his wife had to go to another city to earn money to help support the family.

Despite working hard and sending money home every month, the wife receives no understanding from her husband, who considers providing financial support to him and his mother as a matter of course.

His family didn't care about how hard his wife was working or how she was living alone there; they were only interested in asking about money.

Despite working hard and sending money home every month, the wife doesn't receive any understanding from her husband, who considers providing financial support for him and his mother as something natural.

Gradually, the wife felt empty, yearning for care and affection. Therefore, when men courted her, she couldn't resist because they were willing to ask about her troubles and listen to her stories.

She knew that her behavior was extremely wrong and unacceptable to anyone, but she still wanted to explain the reasons behind it.

When her husband brought up the topic of divorce, she disagreed. It wasn't because she was attached to her husband's family, but because, as a mother, she couldn't bear to leave her child in the care of Mr. Wang's family.

If Mr. Wang's family would agree to relinquish custody of the child, she would accept immediately. The two sides are locked in a stalemate, making the situation increasingly difficult to resolve.

Later, Mr. Wang also realized the problem. Clearly, his wife worked so hard, yet he and his mother treated her so poorly.

He didn't know how to comfort or show her any concern to ease her disappointment and sadness. He understood that her work wasn't easy, but at this point, their relationship had spiraled out of control.

The wife was unfaithful and had extramarital affairs. Their ultimate fate was divorce; reconciliation was impossible.

Top 5 reasons why women cheat.

Women cheat because they are lonely.

As mentioned above, women expect more from their husbands than just a mere breadwinner. What they need is a shoulder to lean on, a true confidant.

If the husband is too busy with work or seems indifferent in the relationship, the woman can easily feel lonely and lacking companionship.

The only thing they felt was their presence in the role of treasurer, accountant, and housekeeper in the family.

The reason is that they don't receive empathy and recognition, as well as love and support, from their husbands.

Over time, women feel lonely in their own homes, lacking the responsibility of "building a home" from their husbands.

Therefore, they tend to seek emotional connection from another man.

Warm, attentive men who understand women's feelings can easily win over lonely, vulnerable women after only a short time together.

If women feel lonely in their own homes, they will tend to seek emotional connection from another man. (Illustrative image)

Demanding too much from your partner.

Love and marriage are two completely different concepts. Therefore, you should clearly understand that the dreams, pampering, and promises made during courtship will not entirely come true when you get married.

Once you're married, he won't be able to spend all day with you, or comfort you every time you're upset.

He also doesn't have the ability to both earn 30 million like Ms. A's husband and come home on time to eat a meal cooked by his wife like Ms. B's husband, his colleague.

Beyond their married life and their role as husbands, they also play countless other roles in society.

A man who is both his parents' son and an employee, or responsible for managing a multitude of tasks, cannot always prioritize his wife.

Having excessively high expectations of a partner can easily lead to feelings of disappointment and frustration. Ultimately, many women choose to escape reality and seek other options for themselves.

This is considered a "grass is always greener on the other side" mentality and can easily lead to infidelity in women, or even worse, marital breakdown.

Not recognized by her husband.

Women always try to compliment their husbands anytime, anywhere to replenish their love and bring positive energy to them.

Conversely, have husbands truly learned how to praise and acknowledge their wives' efforts?

To have a happy family and well-behaved children, women have had to make sacrifices: time, youth, friends, and even their own families.

Husbands only know how to praise the deliciousness of pho (Vietnamese noodle soup) and criticize the boring home-cooked meals. But they rarely realize why women become so old, grumpy, and unkempt.

In many cases, husbands constantly criticize and find fault with their wives for minor mistakes, without paying attention to their efforts.

While praise serves as a springboard for daily improvement, criticism and indifference easily lead to negative emotions and diminish motivation.

While there are countless other understanding men out there ready to protect, praise, and acknowledge them as perfect individuals, it's only a matter of time before women cheat with these seemingly ideal men.

Disparity in education level and income.

Recent studies have indicated that disparities in education and income between men and women are among the reasons for the increasing rate of infidelity among women.

Today, women are increasingly asserting their position, moving beyond the traditional role of a homemaker caring for the family.

Successful women having extramarital affairs isn't necessarily due to contempt for their husbands; it could be due to the following two reasons.

Not a match made in terms of social standing.

This seemingly outdated notion is actually quite true when considering infidelity by the wife.

Because people belong to different social classes, they come into contact with people who have different lifestyles and ways of thinking.

A capable wife can easily meet men with similar life views, and naturally, she will find these men more suitable than her husband, who has a limited perspective.

A successful woman will have higher expectations of her husband. If the salary difference between husband and wife is less than 5 million VND, there's nothing to worry about.

However, the greater the salary gap, the more the woman feels her husband is "incompetent" and the less secure she can rely on him.

Although the husband's income is considered quite good compared to the average, it pales in comparison to his wife's.

Even worse, when a wife's salary is two or three times that of her husband, the likelihood of women seeking safer alternatives increases even further.

Each couple will have different reasons why women cheat.

However, ladies, remember that the man you're living with is the one you chose, the one you once loved, and with whom you shared many beautiful memories. Therefore, don't let a moment of weakness or anger cause you to lose him.

Source: https://giadinh.suckhoedoisong.vn/su-that-dang-long-dang-sau-nguoi-phu-nu-ngoai-tinh-den-5-lan-172250124182915957.htm