Daughter writhed and clung to her lover's car, mother couldn't get her off

The story of a girl arguing with her mother in the middle of the street because her love was forbidden in Phu Duong city, Anhui province has been spread on Chinese social networks.

Specifically, the girl and her colleague from Guizhou had been in love for a long time. On the day of the incident, the girl brought her boyfriend home to meet her parents. At first, the mother was very happy to welcome him, but her expression immediately changed when she learned that the guy was from Guizhou, a place thousands of kilometers away.

She said that Guizhou was too far away, and if her daughter married there, it would be difficult for her to see her children and grandchildren in the future. The mother firmly opposed the relationship, despite the couple's best efforts to persuade them, and even the boyfriend's purchase of a car to take his girlfriend back and forth, but her parents could not be swayed.

The daughter cried and ran after her boyfriend's car when he was stopped.

Faced with his future mother-in-law's determination, the young man had no choice but to turn around and leave. Seeing this, the girl immediately chased after him, crying and saying, "I don't want you to care, I just want to go with him." Even when her mother pulled her back, she still refused to let go.

The matter only calmed down when the guy convinced his girlfriend to calm down, respect her mother's opinion and advised her to go home with her mother first.

The girl clung to her boyfriend's car and wanted to follow him, but her mother couldn't get her off.

As soon as it was posted, the story quickly attracted attention. Many people thought that this mother was too extreme and took the matter of marrying far away too seriously, as long as she found the right person, the distance did not matter.

Others disagreed with the girl's actions. No matter how much she loved her, she should have tried to convince her parents instead of doing such a shameful act. After all, the mother did it for her own good.

What to do when parents forbid love?

Listen to your parents

Talk openly with your parents about your relationship. Be calm and respectful when you hear negative comments from your parents about your partner.

Don't argue or defend your significant other too much, but focus on listening and understanding your parents' thoughts.

If any conflict arises between your parents and your partner, aim for a constructive solution rather than an argument.

Many couples have to endure separation in love just because they cannot overcome barriers from their families. Illustrative photo

How to make them listen

After listening, share your feelings and thoughts with your parents. If your parents resort to criticism, you absolutely must not raise your voice back.

Instead, share your own feelings and thoughts about the relationship.

Tell your parents how you feel about your partner, what's important to you, and what the relationship brings to your life.

Determine the reason for the ban

It is not by chance that your lover's family has a negative attitude and does not accept you. Instead of making a fuss, stay calm and find out what they do not like about you.

There are many reasons why their family forbids you. It could be because you don’t have a stable career, your family situation and that of your lover are different, or there are some problems between your family and your lover’s family,…

The key is to find out the cause, this is the best way for you to determine what the real problem is and what you need to do to solve it.

Give parents time to get to know each other

Give your parents plenty of time to get to know your partner, so any preconceptions or first impressions can be ironed out.

This is also known as the "slow and steady wins the race" tactic. One of the traditional and long-standing tactics that most couples should apply when they are forbidden.

The cooperation and determination of both parties are still important. This is the key to overcoming the family's objections.

There is no old love, only love that cannot overcome the change of people's hearts.

Parents who do this often will lower their children's IQ

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